So, I know what you're all thinking - after the ridiculousness that I had to deal with with this dude, why would I come back around thinking that the second time would be better? I cannot answer that question. As Rick James, once said... 'Cocaine's a helluva drug.' Well, for me tequila's a helluva drug, and I had had way too damn much of it. Woops!
It was September of senior year, and my last orientation. My only goal for that week: freshman boys. Obviously, that goal would only be realized after shots. Lots and lots of shots. I was living off-campus in a house full of girls, and we were determined to start the year off with a bang. For me, I meant literally. So after a night of drunken debauchery, we end up at our local bar for one last attempt to pick up some mens. Considering that it's our one bar on campus, it was more of a sardine can than anything, and there was really no more space for anything but another Long Island. So I knocked one back, and at 2, we were promptly kicked out. With no men picked up, my girls and I headed home for a visit to the refridgerator, where I had some leftover potato salad (better than any man.)
So at some point during my time at the bar, I had run into the guy from 3 years ago. I don't know what I said to him. I don't know what I did. But I am confident that our exchange did not last more than 90 seconds. I was not at all interested in what he had to say. So he was not at all on my mind as I made my way home. Nor was he on my mind as I sat at the kitchen table with the girls, shoes off, schwasty-faced and snacking. So when my phone rang with some mysterious number (because no, I did not save this lame ass' number), I picked up, not expecting it to be him AT ALL. Allow me to recall the conversation:
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Me: [Mouth full of potato salad] Hello?
Him: I'm almost at your door, come outside.
Me: Who the FUCK is this?
Him: Its ......... Come outside
Me: Uh, no. Why do you know where I live??
Him: You told me [No I fucking didn't. I'm not trying to be on SVU.]
Me: Oh, I did? Ok...
Him: Ok, I'm outside.
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Ok, now, let me remind you, reader who is going to judge my decisions, I was really drunk. So obviously, it seemed like a good idea to me to go open the front door and let this dude waltz in. And waltz in he did. I tried to tell him it wasn't a good time, my room was a mess, blah blah bah. His response: 'Well you might not get this oppurtunity again.' I guess in that moment, I believed his statement, and thought it was an oppurtunity worth having - both things turned out to be untrue. So I let him upstairs and attempted to get what he owed me from our last encounter.
Expectedly, it did not go well. I unfortunately don't really recall the happenings of the rest of the night, because not only was I drunk, but the events were very unmemorable. However, my handy dandy roommates made sure to let me know what happened. This dude comes over. Without. Any. Condoms. What fucking guy expects a girl to have condoms? One who's not expecting any fucking sex. Well, upon this discovery I went downstairs to ask my roommates for condoms, while whispering to them to not give me any because even my drunken self knew not to have sex with him. So I went back upstairs, he felt me up a little, and went on his merry way.
The end, right?
Of COURSE NOT. The next morning I woke up, not too hungover, but still acceptably so to just lounge around the house in preparation for the next night out. My roommates and I laughed about the silliness that went on the night before, amused that this kid has gotten me naked twice, and still hadn't managed to have sex with me. At that time, I wasn't really thinking that the night particularly stuck out. Then, as it was about 3 in the afternoon, I decided it was time to shower.
So I'm standing, getting my aromatherapy on with some Johnson's & Johnson's, when I look down at my ta-tas and see bruises. Full on black and blue bruises, in the shape of a HAND-PRINT on my each of beautiful girls. Now let me just put this in perspective. I am a black woman. I can count the number of times I have bruised in my life on one hand. And all the other occurrences have involved me running into metal objects. So how the FUCK did this guy manage to yank on my titties so hard that he bruised them? I mean I know they're nice but, NO, you cannot take them home!
Really, what the fuck, though? I did proceed to tell every single person I knew this story, to both warn girls of the Boobburglar, and to make sure everyone knew about his major fucking faux pas.
After this unfortunate encounter, he kept sending me ridiculous texts throughout the year. Trying to get me to stay awake to see him: 'You may not sleep long, but you'll sleep much better.' [My favorite!] Trying to get me to come over: 'I can make the trip very worthwhile.' Or: 'Baby, I got what you need.' Alright, Biz Markie. There were many more like this. And, readers, I will admit. I did eventually have sex with him. (I had just had a really good meal. I felt like being generous.) It wasn't, surprisingly, bad. I mean, it wasn't good either, but it did the job. Either way, I wasn't bruised that time, and I'm happy.
Til next time - delightful diddling.
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